Life is Beautiful

Life is Beautiful

Life is Beautiful

    Life is beautiful yet complex and sometimes tragic, and sometimes all of those in one.

    We had been notified that a woman was stuck in labor. She had been laboring for more than 24 hours with twins; what should they do? We requested immediate transfer. Well immediate transfer is all well and good when you have access to all the necessary requirements. For this time, it was a scramble to line all methods of travel up. There was no vehicle available and it was necessary to carry her down the mountain to the next clinic where a truck was waiting to take her as far as the river. It was dark now, and the roads are dangerous at night, so it was a slow process. On arriving to the river, it was necessary to find a boat driver who was willing to cross in the dark, with only the light of a head lamp to show the way through a maze of branches from underwater trees. It was a slow, painful and cold journey across the water, and this mama was begging for it to be over. At the other side of the river, it was a 2-hour truck ride to us. This request of “come to the clinic immediately” had amounted to 12 hours of travel.

    A tiny woman with a large taut abdomen emerged from the back of the truck. She was exhausted and had fear and resignation stamped on her face. Assessment showed that she was indeed pregnant with twins, however sadly the first twin was not in a great position and the second twin had already passed away. A C- section was a likely necessity – particularly given the length of time she had been laboring and this was her 9th and 10th babies. I was feeling somewhat proud we had her assessed and ready for transfer with transport, referral letter, translator and midwife to send with her in a little more than 1 hour.

    To be honest, I felt elation when we were able to get her on the road so quickly and there was a solution in sight. The hospital we had referred her to – our nearest with obstetrician cover- did not have an obstetrician available due to their day off.  They said our little group needed to travel a further 2 hours to the bigger referral center where they continued to aim for a normal birth. As the hours dragged by, elation turned to a creeping fear. Final news was that the baby was unstable, and they were rushing for an emergency C-section, that delivered a live but struggling son and his stillborn brother.

    The next few days was a harrowing experience for the couple. They had lost a baby and were separated from his brother. Getting updates was difficult, and it was a number of days before mama and baby were reunited.  After 10 days and 2 blood transfusions following the emergency dash, they were returned to our clinic, a quick stop on their way, glad for being able to go home. Dad was so thankful as at one point during the journey he thought he had lost both babies and his wife. We sent a tiny new baby and his parents home.  A month later they returned; a gorgeous fat baby and relaxed and happy parents.

    Their journey continues on, and I love that the journey didn’t end with loss, but that a whole lot of living and loving continues. This points to the importance of what we are striving for, teaching and preparing our students – the future physician assistants and midwives that will play that role in locations closer to the real deal with significantly improved outcomes.


    Naw Bee Be, EMA midwife, with the parents and their newborn baby named Saw Tou Oo Soe . 

    Mon Parker is an Aussie Midwife living in Kyaukkyi, Myanmar, with her husband. She is a tiny bit obsessed with how people give birth and works with EMA on this very issue.

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    Shannon
    Great story mom thanks for sharing. Gives people in US a better idea how important health care is there and how blessed we are to have it. Maybe one day soon our hospital will be able to do c-sections. 🙏🙏🙏
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    Sue Ryan
    The dad's smiling face as he holds Saw Tou Oo Soe tells of his gratitude for the staff's care in this difficult journey.
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    Shannon
    Mon is this the delivery that you were waiting for when we were there or another? So many stories like this. 😢 Thanks for how you give your life away. And it helps us know how blessed we are and want to help others. Praying 🙏 for your own safe twin delivery.
      Monica
      Monica
      Hi Shannon - this was a different occasion, the woman i was waiting for when you were there is also a story that needs to be told. Thanks for your prayers.
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    Lucy
    Great story by a great story teller. Love you and all the best as you and EhSu prepare for your own arrivals.

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